Hi Teri, small world. LOL Sounds like you have alot of fun with your little ones.
My intial injuries were not from riding. Funny that everyone always assumes the "horse" is the cause! I had an intial injury, let it go, and things just gradually snowballed, until everything just let loose. Lesson learned, do NOT wait to see a doc!

Also, do NOT let husband talk you into using a two man, power, post hole driver, I was surprised my arm wasn't completely ripped from my socket!
I am NOT a good one to ask about horse handling, as I was forced into full chores at 12 or 14 days post op, and talk about being nervous.

There wasn't anyone to feed or do the chores, so no choice. I was on my horse at 8 weeks. I DID do an endurance ride (50 miles) at 10.5 weeks out, more out of desperation to ride. My horses are VERY space aware, gentle and easy to handle, safe to ride, so I was willing to take that chance. Riding still can hurt, but that is decreasing too.
Even at 7.5 months I am still SCARED to be around other's horses (and I am house sitting 3, rather hard to handle, with LOTS of chorses for a couple weeks). So far I've been jerked/ran into ON my FS side 4 times...oh this is fun.
My horses just naturally avoided my right side, and were even more quiet then normal, God bless their hairy hides.
I am finding moving hay to be somewhat of a large challenge, as I USED to be able stack and handle 95lb bales just fine, now more then about 50lbs and I'm snookered. Grooming them has gradually gotten easier, but for the issue with the FS, which will be time.
I can't wait to go home...
Sky